We were recently asked by a client, “How do I date in a post ‘Me Too’ Era?” We thought it was an interesting question, so here are our thoughts.
Understandably, there is an increased regard for, and consideration of, gender equity and mutually consensual engagements with women - and rightfully so!
This can sometimes surface itself in subtle ways like, paying for the bill (split or not to split), or it could seem more high-risk, like going for the kiss. In any circumstance, we want to make sure whatever might seem like a gentlemanly gesture, isn’t misinterpreted by your date.
Even more, what’s the appropriate amount of “persistence” or “forwardness” to show when wanting to show your date you’re attracted to her?We dive deeper into this topic here but at the root of all, it comes down to communication.
Knowing what your date finds romantic (ex: you making the first move), what her expectations are for “date etiquette,” and expressing how you behave on dates (ex: “I’m the kind of guy who will open the door for you” for example) will help ensure things run smoothly!
Trust us when we say the communication will be appreciated and shows you’re conscientious and mindful - two great qualities to exhibit!