You see, a girl might go out on one date with you out of sheer curiosity, but the chances of her wanting a repeat performance depends entirely on how into you she is. Which is why in the long term, one date doesn’t really mean all that much.
So how exactly do you make a girl want to come back for date number two?
In most cultures, men approach women by starting a conversation. A beautiful girl deals with many such attempts at conversation, often on a daily basis. Usually these attempts at getting to know us are annoying or just plain bad, but we’re always waiting for Mr. Right to come over and talk to us.
If you wonder what kind of approaches make you seem like a creeper or what approaches you can use to significantly increase your chances of success, this article is definitely for you.
Last week, I was out practicing pool with a couple of friends. Unsurprisingly, conversation naturally focuses on women and what I do for a living. Personally, I don’t mind because I love what I do. And conveniently, I’m always learning something about what others are thinking that can help better my coaching.
My mind never really shuts off.
Read to see what I learned this time...
Hey what’s your type? What type of guy do you normally go for? Am I your type?
On some level we feel that asking these types of questions will yield some accurate insights into a woman’s dating preferences and the characteristics that she finds attractive in a man, that ultimately she finds admirable enough to express a desire for.
Perhaps more sneakily, we feel that by asking this question we can move towards her ideal type of guy by meeting her strict criteria!
Did you know there are dating sites for people who want to meet at the airport?
I’m not exactly sure how it works but it just shows how easy -- or difficult -- it is to meet someone.
Let me explain.
For most travelers, as much as they jet-set across the world for business or pleasure, a good amount of their time is spent in the airport.
And regardless of your situation, you have a very good chance of meeting someone at the airport -- you just need to know how. Consider the problem solved as I will share my best advice for how to make it happen.
When you go into a situation with a Win/Win attitude, like it states, everyone wins. As Stephen Covey wrote in his book,
“Win/Win means that agreements or solutions are mutually beneficial, mutually satisfying. With a Win/Win solution, all parties feel good about the decision and feel committed to the action plan. Win/Win sees life as a cooperative, not a competitive arena.”
I forget where I came across this. I just have the notes here and I wanted to talk about this because I thought this was interesting. There are people out there who have done tons of relationship research and now have recently devised a list of emotional needs guys have to fulfill in order to keep a woman attracted to you for a long time. This is supposed to be critical to maintaining a long-term relationship.
