fashion

The Ultimate Guide To Tying ANY Tie (Including Bow Ties)

Chances are this guy didn't tie his own tie.It wasn't until I was in college when I learned how to tie a tie -- on my own.

I could blame my dad for that but he never wears a tie -- he's all about the collarless button-downs. Despite that, he still knows how to tie one.

I only know a handful of people who know how to tie a tie correctly -- and those who do only know one way and stick to it.

There are also those who rarely wear ties or if they do, tie once and leave it tied. And let's not talk about those who still use clip-ons.

None of this is wrong -- except for the clip-ons (Seriously, you should be ashamed. Don't be that lazy).

As men, we should learn not only how to tie a tie but also the various knots you can create. Here, I'll share the 4 most popular knots.

And even if you don't wear ties or have no value for this, you don't want to be the dad who can't teach his son how to tie a tie, do you?

Every Secret to Dating & Sex Answered By Women

Men will do or say anything to give them an excuse why something isn’t possible. Part of my job is to prove them wrong. Thank goodness there is data our there from surveys and online interactions to help my cause. This one comes from Maxim Magazine as they surveyed almost 8,000 women from across the country. Still skeptical? Think of it in numbers:

Fall Fashion Preview & Tips

Summer is ending - officially in a couple weeks. As the temperatures cool and the leaves change color, it’s important that your fashion adjusts to the change of seasons. So put away the linen outfit and start focusing on layering again.

I wrote about the concept of layering last year. It plays a strong role in fall fashion and it allows you to change the way to wear certain things in your closet.

So this year, I want to share three (3) sources that I use to know what’s going to be the look this fall.

Creating A Unique Style

NOTE: Blank Label is a new sponsor of The Professional Wingman.

Remember the days of “peacocking?” Guys dressing ridiculously just to get attention from women? The crazy thing was it worked until women caught on. Today, there are enough holidays and theme parties to wear those things you thought were socially appropriate. So why not do some homework and find out what actually makes man stand out from his pack?

I remember over a year and a half ago, I put out a blog post about finding good shirts. It was a great post for someone who was looking to get a basic idea as to what to wear and how to find things that worked for them.

In the age of purchasing clothes online from places like Zappos, Amazon and eBay, why not order customized shirts? Think about it. You would essentially be the only person to have the shirt. Imagine a wardrobe filled with customized shirts that no one else can buy in stores or replicate. Pretty cool, huh?

I introduce to you, Blank Label.

Instead of explaining it in words, Molly from DemoGirl.com was awesome enough to do a video of ordering a shirt on BL. Enjoy. PS - Who’s that guy in the pink shirt on the home page?

The shirts use quality material, fit REALLY well, are durable and inexpensive, compared to other custom shirts. I personally have two shirts from BL, one that I have worn on a recent episode of LoveNation.

 

I’d like to get you in on the fun so I’d like to offer you a 20% discount for first-time buyers. Just enter the code wingman at checkout and you’re good to go!

I’d love to see designs you’ve made! Also, be sure to check out the newly-designed Blank Label blog for updates, special announcements and information.

Top 3 Men's Shoes for the Fall & Winter

I was shopping with Emmi Sorokin from It's A Man's World Image Consulting and we talked about what shoes guys should be wearing this season.

For an exclusive look at what Emmi helped me get from Johnston & Murphy, check out this video.
 

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The Return of the Hat

Ever since I was able to change my hairstyle, I have been obsessed with hats. I have always loved wearing them as it’s one of those overlooked accessories that can make an entire outfit complete. Some guys I know dress around the hat. I personally think that’s a recipe for disaster, as it will limit your options. A hat is just an addition to your style it’s not a foundation piece. Remember that.

But as I continue to try to bring hats back in style in Boston (sorry, Justin [Timberlake]), my barber told me about this hat place in Jamaica Plain that he thought I’d love. It was called Salmagundi. He said that it was ALL hats. I was sold. I went there on a Tuesday and much to my chagrin, it was closed (Salmagundi is closed on Mondays and Tuesdays). So I made sure that I made time to go the next day with my cousin. When I walked in, I felt like I was in hat heaven. It’s a small store but has a lot of energy and personality. It’s easy to feel right at home at this place.

 

I was looking for a hat to wear in couple hours for an event and Jessen, one of the owners of Salmagundi, was there to help me out and see what hats I looked good in. Come to find out, I looked pretty good in many hats.

 

 

Salmagundi’s hats range in price ($40 and up) so anyone can come here. Jessen and Andria can tell you what hats to wear during each season and what materials last longer than others. A quality hat can last you for years if you are able to take care of them. Just like fitted caps and just like a nice pairs of shoes, these kinds of hats require care and a level of maintenance. Just like certain shoes, you shouldn’t wear straw summer hats in the rain. Then again, wearing a sweatshirt during a heat wave, it may not be best to wear a wool hat in the summer. These are all things you can learn from the peeps at Salmagundi.

I love this place and I plan to get all of my hats from here. Personally, I see hats making a strong comeback (once again, sorry, JT) and if you are looking for some quality hats and a little bit of flare, Salmagundi is going to be your place to get them.

There are located at:

765 Centre Street
Jamaica Plain, MA 02130
(617) 522-5047

You can check out their blog at Salmagundi Boston.

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Style Series – Taking Risks

This is the final post of my rather brief Style Series. You can check out the others here:

The Importance of Layering
The Real Meaning of Dressing Casual
Style Series - Peacocking vs. Accentuating

What does that even mean?

It doesn’t mean that you can wear whatever you want (sorry to those who were hoping sweats can be cool again).

But with some knowledge, experience and a good wardrobe foundation, you can afford to mix things up and take some risks to push your look.

If done successfully, you have the potential to become a trendsetter.

But that’s not the real reason why you would even bother taking risks, right?

No, it’s to create YOUR own style.

Your style can be hard to replicate. Your style can be hard to pull off on other people. But most importantly, your style says a lot about the kind of person you are and the amount of confidence you can exude.

I wanted to keep this short because there really isn’t much more to it. I’ll show you some pictures of what I mean.

Are you ready to take risks?

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The Professional Wingman/AXE Hair Tweetup (6/24 @Dillon's)

For the first time, The Professional Wingman & AXE Hair are joining forces to help guys update their look and get girl-approved hair, just in time for summer!

Come to Dillon's and hang out on the patio where you can get some free AXE Hair products and get answers for what women find attractive from one of the fastest up and coming dating coaches in Boston, Thomas Edwards - also known as The Professional Wingman. Get to learn some style, fashion and hair tips that will get women to give you that second look you've been wanting.

Girlfriends, wives and women alike are welcome as well. Here's your chance to bring your significant others and other guy friends to make sure they learn how to keep their hair clean and get their look girl-approved for the summer and thereafter.

There's no better place to find these answers than here.

You can also come and have some drinks and appetizers, thanks to AXE Hair.

While at the tweetup, you'll get to tweet with my official "winggirl," CarlywithAXE, where you can ask her questions regarding dating and style. Can't go wrong with your dating questions answered from the female's point of view.

At the end of the night, there will be a raffle, giving away two (2) 2-hour coaching sessions with Thomas Edwards (valued at $200 each) where you will get the hands-on wingman experience and some solid dating consultation!

You can follow the action by using/searching for the #approved hashtag.

Be sure to check out The Professional Wingman to learn more about Thomas Edwards and his coaching.

And be sure to take a look at AXE Hair's campaign at the AXE Hair Crisis Relief site.

Special thanks to Dillon's for let us hold the event at their venue.


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